We become obsessed with checking our phones every couple of minutes, and we don’t take control of our lives.
Then I’d check that the phone wasn’t on silent and that the vibrator was on so that I’d know for sure when I did get that text back.
And then, several minutes later, I’d go through this whole process again, after having checked my phone several more times and not seeing any new messages.
Take that “lol” out of the sentence, and it really just comes across as strange.
But when you keep it in, it shows that you’re just making a joke out of something boring. It’s so much easier to come up with your own as this has no context for a real conversation and would be useless if you tried to duplicate it.
(The same thing could be said for using “haha” as this is interchangeable with “lol.”) To lighten the mood again for something that seems serious, you might say to a woman, “Yeah, I just got home from the gym.
They had to kick me out because I started lifting up the side of the building lol.” Just saying something ridiculous like this could get a laugh out of her, and the placement of that “lol” at the end of the sentence clearly tells her you’re joking around as opposed to just being weird.
So sometimes, when you say something she might take as being serious through text, if you just throw in a smiley face at the end, it can completely change the mood of the text. ” This message is a little too serious for a question like that.
For example, if you want to tease a girl but not come across as being too serious, you can say something like “Julie! It’s been forever since I’ve seen you :)” A text like this shows her that you’re inquiring about her and would like to know where she’s been lately. She’s so much more likely to reply to the first as opposed to the second, which is a little too pressing.
Many guys struggle with what to text a girl and how to communicate effectively with them!
Most guys really have no idea what to do after they get a number.
After that, it’s all about the text game, so you really have to master what you say. You’ll be getting her to say “Yes” to go on a date with you.