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In terms of attraction, when you connect deeply at this level, attraction can grow. Ladies, you can’t do anything about the men who want a midlife-crisis-Barbie-Doll.
So stop looking for super hot chemistry and butterflies when you first meet. Ignore those men, and seek out the guys who want a relationship with someone they can relate to. Truly.◊♦◊Guys, if you’re comparing all the women you date to your ex, or you’re still blaming her for your problems, please get therapy and work this stuff out.
(yes I do fall into this category) Chances are good that these women have older kids who are well on their way and don’t really want your input on their children.
They know who they are and why their marriage failed and are looking for pure companionship.
— As a dating coach for single women over 40, one of the first questions I ask a client is, “What’s your biggest problem in dating? I recently asked a group of about 300 single, divorced, and widowed women over 40 what their biggest problems were in dating. But when a man rushes sex, women often feel objectified.
” I want to know what they’ve tried and what their struggles are. I wanted to see how many struggled with the same issues. They want to be appreciated for more than their bodies.
Their desire to be with men 15-20 years their senior means they are looking for someone to take care of them both financially and personally.
Be cautious men, these women are looking for you to do it all over again and that means house and children.
They probably won’t be in “awe” of you and hang on your every word.